“The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life.” - Richard Bach

Beyond the TV: Everyday Practices for a Connected Family

Family Time

Are you looking for a way to unplug as a family? There are many ways it can be done, whether it is reading aloud, going for a family walk, or playing a physical board game. I have my own wonderful memories from moments like these. Whatever you choose I recommend looking for activities that create collaboration, are age appropriate for your family, and strengthen connection within your family unit.

Within this world there are so many things that can divide and separate us. Why should we not take some time to intentionally find ways to strengthen the family unit? It does not have to be the perfect activity but you will have to be intentional about it and be consistent. Personally I think that the work is worth the effort. I am thankful for the work my parents put in when I was little, when many didn't understand the choices my parents made. I get to reap the benefits from the work my parents put in through the years.

I remember our family being the odd ones for limiting screen use and putting limits on us as kids. I remember the contrast of families that had a tv in every room, smartphones for every kid, so on and so forth. While our family had one tv, our parents were willing to unplug it completely at times if we were struggling with our behavior and the tv seemed to be the culprit. If I needed something on the computer I was using a login on my parents computer which creates a different mindset then thinking that it is my own device. And the same idea for smartphones. The purpose of a phone is to be able to call someone in case of an emergency or even just to be able to connect with someone via calls or text. The smartphone is not a necessity for a kid.

What is necessary for childhood is the chance to learn life skills in a safe environment. To discover, play, and imagine. To create connection with your family and to build relationships that last. What will your family do to unplug this week?